Unchained
Ladies..Just looking for a review on a profile I made online. Thank you!
For starters my name is Jon. I'm 23 despite what the site says. I'll be turning 24 in February. Do you remember when your parents always told you, "When you turn 21 your years will fly by"? They couldn't have said that better. Life is too short. That's why I tend to be gutsy, adventurous, and a rule bender. Crazy events do occur in my life. Everything from standing next to Jim Edmonds at a urinal during a Blues game with a dead fish look on my face(is this for real??!!), falling through stairs of an old abandoned house, and chasing a tornado cell over the summer. I was born and raised a die-hard Cardinal fan. You probably saw me on Washington St. after game 7 hanging out of my car chanting, "DA-VID FREESE!". Eventually everyone started chanting. After driving back to south county 7am the next morning I realized I had the time of my life.
I'm currently trying to pursue a career in Network Security. I've set a strict goal to obtain a couple of network security certifications by June. Network Security Specialist or Intrusion Detector will probably be my job title eventually. If I exceed my goals, I plan on acquiring a position on the Cyber Team for the FBI. (Hope you like the movie Hackers!) I really haven't had the chance to travel. When I finally find my career I plan on traveling often. (Yellowstone, Cascades, Scotland, Australia to name a few.) In my spare time I enjoy weight lifting, going to concerts, going to Cardinals games, exploring Saint Louis, watching movies, going to the occasional bar or club, bbqing, cooking, and relaxing.
This sounds cliché', but I really don't want to meet someone at a bar. You won't get "true" from the bar scene. This gives me the opportunity to actually get to know someone on a personal level eliminating any shallow tendencies from either side.
My ideal match-
Mature-but not too uptight to act goofy or get a piggy-back ride.
Caring
Fun-Can scream along with me at a concert
Optimistic
Adventurous-Likes to travel or site see.
Kind
Doesn't mind staying in every once in a while to watch a movie.
If you've laughed or smiled at anything I've said, feel free to introduce yourself! That doesn't mean send me a, "Hey what's up". Be creative!
Answer
Hi Jon,
Iâm sorry to have to break this to you itâs absolutely terrible, itâs EXACTLY like every other guys online dating profile, some may say if everyone is doing it must work, but in this case that certainly is not true, it has very limited results compared to other methods, like you I do a bit of network security myself, as I have a CCNA, and CCNP qualification, but most attractive women donât care about network security, actually even ugly women donât care about network security, I was in the same situation as you when I started, and what really helped me was a program called Online Dating Explained, you can get a free profile from Adam, change it around and then run with it, and if you like it like I did, then he also offers an eBook with example messages etc.
The link to the Free Online Dating Explained Profile is http://www.onlinedatingexplained.com/pof/
James
Hi Jon,
Iâm sorry to have to break this to you itâs absolutely terrible, itâs EXACTLY like every other guys online dating profile, some may say if everyone is doing it must work, but in this case that certainly is not true, it has very limited results compared to other methods, like you I do a bit of network security myself, as I have a CCNA, and CCNP qualification, but most attractive women donât care about network security, actually even ugly women donât care about network security, I was in the same situation as you when I started, and what really helped me was a program called Online Dating Explained, you can get a free profile from Adam, change it around and then run with it, and if you like it like I did, then he also offers an eBook with example messages etc.
The link to the Free Online Dating Explained Profile is http://www.onlinedatingexplained.com/pof/
James
An online friend wants to kill herself...help me?
Brian L
So I have an online friend. Shes not just a random online person, we've been talking to each other for about a year now, almost daily. I know she doesn't have a lot of friends and she really doesn't like her parents, and she counts me to the people she cherishes most. Today she tells me she wants to kill herself. She's 14, but actually really mature. I already told her all the things she has to live for, the persons who love her and all of that. But she dismisses everything. Then she told me I was the only person who shed tell this to, ebcause she knows I wouldn't take this as just an attempt to get attention. I told her to talk to her school psychologist or counselor, she said there aren't any. I can't do anything from here... I can't call suicide watch nor do I have any phone numbers of people close to her.
Helllppp I really don't know what to do! She put this responsibillity on me and I don't know how to handle it.
@Mr Taco: I know it doesn't sound like it, but she really is. She types with correct spelling and grammar, I can talk to her about anything in politics, she is a very good artist, her screen names don't look like xXxXxEmOGiRlxXxXx and are always pretty simple and plain. She's open minded generally interested and knows her stuff. When I first met her and didn't know her age, I thought she was around 19.
@everyone else... thank you so much for helping, I will keep talking to her, trying to make her happy, and I will show her the song tomorrow. She also responded really well to the golden gate bridge example.
Answer
Contact the people who run that online site, as well as going to your local police with all the relevant printouts. They can track her through her IP address, and advise the local authorities that she needs help. They need EVIDENCE, before they can act, so copy, print, or save to FAVORITES/BOOKMARKS, etc. Start very soon. Try to do it by cellular mobile phone, if possible, so you can keep her online. Ask her whether she has made any definite plan, has a method, and has set a date, yet?
A previous answer follows: I went through a similar thing to you; it's important to realise that you are probably deeply depressed at present, but even so, you may still remember times when life was good. Well, it can be again, and soon: but you need treatment, which is readily available; all you have to do is reach out for it. See suicidal thoughts, and depression treatments, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris... in sections 5 (especially SUICIDAL LOVED ONES HELPING A SUICIDAL FRIEND OR RELATIVE ), and 2 (view page R first). Contact the hotlines provided.
If the suicidal feelings become overwhelming, take a taxi, or call an ambulance, or use public transport, to take you to the nearest ER, or mental health facility, or call your local emergency number: 911 (USA & Canada), 000 (Australia), 999 (UK & Poland), 111 (New Zealand), 112 (Europe), & 119 (East Asia); see the phone book elsewhere, or Google: "emergency phone numbers". On GSM cellular mobile phone networks worldwide, it is 112; you may need a SIM card, and possibly require credit.
Don't drive, yourself: you may well be a danger to others on the roads, in your current mental state. Too many people are found, and revived, but have suffered permanent mental damage, and live the rest of their lives in a semi vegetative state: their family, and friends feel guilty, and responsible, for not noticing the signs, and doing something about it.
It's a very nasty thing for them to have to go through, too, even though I appreciate that life is certainly no bed of roses for you, at present, so please, get help, right now: seek assistance, or use the hotlines provided.
It may induce those who cared about you to commit suicide, as well, or at least try, with undesirab
Contact the people who run that online site, as well as going to your local police with all the relevant printouts. They can track her through her IP address, and advise the local authorities that she needs help. They need EVIDENCE, before they can act, so copy, print, or save to FAVORITES/BOOKMARKS, etc. Start very soon. Try to do it by cellular mobile phone, if possible, so you can keep her online. Ask her whether she has made any definite plan, has a method, and has set a date, yet?
A previous answer follows: I went through a similar thing to you; it's important to realise that you are probably deeply depressed at present, but even so, you may still remember times when life was good. Well, it can be again, and soon: but you need treatment, which is readily available; all you have to do is reach out for it. See suicidal thoughts, and depression treatments, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris... in sections 5 (especially SUICIDAL LOVED ONES HELPING A SUICIDAL FRIEND OR RELATIVE ), and 2 (view page R first). Contact the hotlines provided.
If the suicidal feelings become overwhelming, take a taxi, or call an ambulance, or use public transport, to take you to the nearest ER, or mental health facility, or call your local emergency number: 911 (USA & Canada), 000 (Australia), 999 (UK & Poland), 111 (New Zealand), 112 (Europe), & 119 (East Asia); see the phone book elsewhere, or Google: "emergency phone numbers". On GSM cellular mobile phone networks worldwide, it is 112; you may need a SIM card, and possibly require credit.
Don't drive, yourself: you may well be a danger to others on the roads, in your current mental state. Too many people are found, and revived, but have suffered permanent mental damage, and live the rest of their lives in a semi vegetative state: their family, and friends feel guilty, and responsible, for not noticing the signs, and doing something about it.
It's a very nasty thing for them to have to go through, too, even though I appreciate that life is certainly no bed of roses for you, at present, so please, get help, right now: seek assistance, or use the hotlines provided.
It may induce those who cared about you to commit suicide, as well, or at least try, with undesirab
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