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I dont really know if my husband is having an affair to another woman. I dont have any proofs but my instinct. I need help. Thanks.
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I do believe in women's intuition, if your radar has gone up there is usually a reason. Here are a few tips you may want to consider:
1) Cell Phone- if you can get your hands on his cell phone, check the text messages. If he is cheating, chances are that he has put a lock code on it. The way to get your hands on his cell would be to let the battery die on yours while the two of you are out and ask to borrow his. If he is reluctant to share it- BIG RED FLAG. If he does give it up, go to the ladies room and check out the text messages & recent calls. By the way, before you do this PRACTICE on an identical phone to his so that you are not fumbling around with it once you get it. If you do find something incriminating- DO NOT CALL HIM OUT ON IT YET. Play it cool.
2) Credit Card bills- Guys are not stupid and will not use their credit cards. If however you do have some way of getting your hands on his credit card charges, look for the usual suspects like hotels & flowers. What you really want to check though is his wallet for a CASH DEBIT CARD. These are easily obtainable at Walmart or CVS and allows your hubby to dump thousands of dollars of cash on it so he can use it for hotels, gifts, etc.. If you see one of these that you are not privy to...watch out.
3) GPS- If he has a GPS in his car, check to see the last addresses he has been Most guys are good about deleting their text messages, but not so diligent with the GPS in their car. It could have information about the address of her work or other meeting spots. If his GPS has a couple of local hotels on it...you know the deal.
4) Working Out- This is one of the best excuses for getting out of the house. Going to the gym, running errands, etc.. The way to check this one (short of following him of course) would be to call him on his cell and ask him "Honey...where are you right now?" You'll need to do this in a casual way so that he does not pick up on your suspicion, but the point of the question is that most guys are terrible at keeping a "time & place" reconciliation off the top of their head. For example, say he claims to be heading to the gym. If he goes somewhere else and you ask that question 10-min after he's been driving, it is not easy to determine EXACTLY where he is supposed to be and have it coincide with a trip to the gym. He will almost always dodge the question, or give an intersection that does not jive.
5) Timelines- This one is very tricky for cheaters to keep in their head, especially if they've been with out for a few hours. Most of the time a guy will have a good excuse planned out in case he needs to provide an accounting of where he has been the past few hours after he gets home. The trick here is to NOT ASK the question at that moment. Pretend you did not even notice his absence and have the usual chit-chat, dinner, etc.. The NEXT DAY however, casually bring it up and ask "where were you yesterday for 3-hours?" This is a major curve ball since chances are he may have forgotten the BS story he had planned to give and rehearsed in his car on the way home. By asking when he least expects it (especially when he thought he was off the hook), it will make it difficult to keep a credible timeline.
6) Comes home Late, leaves EARLY next day: Most hotels have a 3:00pm check-in, and a 12:00pm check-out the following day. Cheating couples like to maximize the use of the hotel room and will arrange for an early morning romp before the 12:00pm check-out. So, a good sign might be that he leaves the following morning earlier than usual. Also, if he comes home smelling squeaky clean like he just took a shower....he just took a shower.
7) Privacy Screens on Cell Phone & Computer: There are very inexpensive privacy screens that one can affix to their phones or laptops so that the content can only be viewed by looking at it directly, and impossible for anyone standing at an angle. If he bought these recently....watch out.
8) 2nd Cheap Cell Phone: Most cheaters will buy a cheap 2nd cell phone to "firewall" the phone numbers from their real life and their fantasy cheating life. If he has a 2nd cell phone (locked of course) that is a pre-paid, it MAY be an indicator. It might also be that he uses one for work and the other for personal, so it's more of a sign if he recently purchased it (i.e. 2 or 3 months).
9) Rattle his Cage: Nothing makes a cheater's stomach turn to knots more than conversations about "OTHER" cheaters. That is, begin a conversation with "Honey, guess who I just found out was cheating? Go ahead....take a guess?" Pause for a little bit so you can gauge his reaction. If he is guilty of cheating, he might turn pale as he waits for your response, Don't make it obvious that you were fishing for his answer, and continue the conversation with "So-and-so from across the street found out her husband was cheating....yadda yadda yadda."
10) New Clothes, New Body, New Attitude: Another tell-tale sign is that he starts tak
I do believe in women's intuition, if your radar has gone up there is usually a reason. Here are a few tips you may want to consider:
1) Cell Phone- if you can get your hands on his cell phone, check the text messages. If he is cheating, chances are that he has put a lock code on it. The way to get your hands on his cell would be to let the battery die on yours while the two of you are out and ask to borrow his. If he is reluctant to share it- BIG RED FLAG. If he does give it up, go to the ladies room and check out the text messages & recent calls. By the way, before you do this PRACTICE on an identical phone to his so that you are not fumbling around with it once you get it. If you do find something incriminating- DO NOT CALL HIM OUT ON IT YET. Play it cool.
2) Credit Card bills- Guys are not stupid and will not use their credit cards. If however you do have some way of getting your hands on his credit card charges, look for the usual suspects like hotels & flowers. What you really want to check though is his wallet for a CASH DEBIT CARD. These are easily obtainable at Walmart or CVS and allows your hubby to dump thousands of dollars of cash on it so he can use it for hotels, gifts, etc.. If you see one of these that you are not privy to...watch out.
3) GPS- If he has a GPS in his car, check to see the last addresses he has been Most guys are good about deleting their text messages, but not so diligent with the GPS in their car. It could have information about the address of her work or other meeting spots. If his GPS has a couple of local hotels on it...you know the deal.
4) Working Out- This is one of the best excuses for getting out of the house. Going to the gym, running errands, etc.. The way to check this one (short of following him of course) would be to call him on his cell and ask him "Honey...where are you right now?" You'll need to do this in a casual way so that he does not pick up on your suspicion, but the point of the question is that most guys are terrible at keeping a "time & place" reconciliation off the top of their head. For example, say he claims to be heading to the gym. If he goes somewhere else and you ask that question 10-min after he's been driving, it is not easy to determine EXACTLY where he is supposed to be and have it coincide with a trip to the gym. He will almost always dodge the question, or give an intersection that does not jive.
5) Timelines- This one is very tricky for cheaters to keep in their head, especially if they've been with out for a few hours. Most of the time a guy will have a good excuse planned out in case he needs to provide an accounting of where he has been the past few hours after he gets home. The trick here is to NOT ASK the question at that moment. Pretend you did not even notice his absence and have the usual chit-chat, dinner, etc.. The NEXT DAY however, casually bring it up and ask "where were you yesterday for 3-hours?" This is a major curve ball since chances are he may have forgotten the BS story he had planned to give and rehearsed in his car on the way home. By asking when he least expects it (especially when he thought he was off the hook), it will make it difficult to keep a credible timeline.
6) Comes home Late, leaves EARLY next day: Most hotels have a 3:00pm check-in, and a 12:00pm check-out the following day. Cheating couples like to maximize the use of the hotel room and will arrange for an early morning romp before the 12:00pm check-out. So, a good sign might be that he leaves the following morning earlier than usual. Also, if he comes home smelling squeaky clean like he just took a shower....he just took a shower.
7) Privacy Screens on Cell Phone & Computer: There are very inexpensive privacy screens that one can affix to their phones or laptops so that the content can only be viewed by looking at it directly, and impossible for anyone standing at an angle. If he bought these recently....watch out.
8) 2nd Cheap Cell Phone: Most cheaters will buy a cheap 2nd cell phone to "firewall" the phone numbers from their real life and their fantasy cheating life. If he has a 2nd cell phone (locked of course) that is a pre-paid, it MAY be an indicator. It might also be that he uses one for work and the other for personal, so it's more of a sign if he recently purchased it (i.e. 2 or 3 months).
9) Rattle his Cage: Nothing makes a cheater's stomach turn to knots more than conversations about "OTHER" cheaters. That is, begin a conversation with "Honey, guess who I just found out was cheating? Go ahead....take a guess?" Pause for a little bit so you can gauge his reaction. If he is guilty of cheating, he might turn pale as he waits for your response, Don't make it obvious that you were fishing for his answer, and continue the conversation with "So-and-so from across the street found out her husband was cheating....yadda yadda yadda."
10) New Clothes, New Body, New Attitude: Another tell-tale sign is that he starts tak
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