Brewboy62
NO! I really want to know why women let men treat em like **** and they go back even though there's a man ready to treat them like a real women! No BS replys plz!
Answer
Honestly?... think about it. Why do girls LOVE watching soap operas? Why do they love gossiping about things? The FACT of LIFE is that women have to have drama in their lives. They are just hard wired that way. Women are attracted to masculine men that will stick up for themselves and them. That means they want a man that will stand up to them and not give them every little thing they want even if they beg and cry about it!! They aren't looking for a daddy, they are looking for a "man". When you stand up to women it makes them respect you more.
That doesn't mean you treat them like crap, cuss or attack them physically.. but you stand up to them and call their bluff. Don't take their crap. Typically.. "nice" or "good" guys just go along with whatever the woman wants, and are attending to their every need. The estrogen in the womans body responds with... "this guy is boring", "this guy isn't a man", so they run back to the "jerk". He may treat them bad (in your eyes).. but he gives them something that the "nice" guy doesn't. He gives them drama, an opportunity to be mad, so that later they can make up. This makes a woman feel like they have a strong relationship that can withstand a storm.
A nice guy never gives this to a woman, b/c he's a wuss and waits on her hand and foot smothering her. When you try too hard, women run away. So if what you are doing isn't working then why do you keep doing it? That's the definition of insanity to do the same thing over and over and expect a different result.That's why the jerk wins. Women need drama. They actually enjoy a argument and a "man" that will stand up to them. That's why nice guys finish last... If you don't believe this, then look at the world, and look at your question. There's my evidence!! It's the truth, girls brains function differently than a mans and they want a protector, provider, masculine, strong, secure man that knows what he wants and isn't going to waver from it no matter how hard she tries to make him. Make decisions and stick with them... she'll like that. I hope this answers your question. Sounds insane? Yes. Is it true? Yes. Can we understand womens logic? No. Just accept it.
Honestly?... think about it. Why do girls LOVE watching soap operas? Why do they love gossiping about things? The FACT of LIFE is that women have to have drama in their lives. They are just hard wired that way. Women are attracted to masculine men that will stick up for themselves and them. That means they want a man that will stand up to them and not give them every little thing they want even if they beg and cry about it!! They aren't looking for a daddy, they are looking for a "man". When you stand up to women it makes them respect you more.
That doesn't mean you treat them like crap, cuss or attack them physically.. but you stand up to them and call their bluff. Don't take their crap. Typically.. "nice" or "good" guys just go along with whatever the woman wants, and are attending to their every need. The estrogen in the womans body responds with... "this guy is boring", "this guy isn't a man", so they run back to the "jerk". He may treat them bad (in your eyes).. but he gives them something that the "nice" guy doesn't. He gives them drama, an opportunity to be mad, so that later they can make up. This makes a woman feel like they have a strong relationship that can withstand a storm.
A nice guy never gives this to a woman, b/c he's a wuss and waits on her hand and foot smothering her. When you try too hard, women run away. So if what you are doing isn't working then why do you keep doing it? That's the definition of insanity to do the same thing over and over and expect a different result.That's why the jerk wins. Women need drama. They actually enjoy a argument and a "man" that will stand up to them. That's why nice guys finish last... If you don't believe this, then look at the world, and look at your question. There's my evidence!! It's the truth, girls brains function differently than a mans and they want a protector, provider, masculine, strong, secure man that knows what he wants and isn't going to waver from it no matter how hard she tries to make him. Make decisions and stick with them... she'll like that. I hope this answers your question. Sounds insane? Yes. Is it true? Yes. Can we understand womens logic? No. Just accept it.
HELP! Need advise on running shoes?
snoopyluve
I need to buy running shoes. I dont know which ones to buy since there are so many options. Im a women with medium to high arches that underpronate. I need cushioned shoes. Shoes that cost less than $100.00 Can someone please help me find good running shoes with my specifications. Please and Thank You:)
I prefer Nike but im open to other brands if they are good
Answer
If there is a specialized running store in your area (some better-known stores are known as Fleet Feet; just do a search on running stores), head there and get a gait analysis, and make sure it's more than having a saleperson simply watch you walk across the store in your socks. A decent store will have you on a treadmill where they can gauge your stride, footstrike, etc. Big box stores like Sports Authority, though they might have salespeople that are runners, are really not the place to get the right shoe for you if you have no idea what shoe to get.
Even though I technically have normal arches based on the wet test (dip your feet in water, step on a newspaper to see the imprint; if you see an arch, normal foot, flat foot or high arch), my feet are flat, I am an extreme heel-striker, and I am a severe overpronator. While I was in the correct group of shoes (stability), I needed a sturdier shoe.
You might find that your foot type may be wrong, or that depending on factors other than your build, like your age, weight, how long you have been running, where you run (pavement, trail), your average pace (fast runner or steady slow runner), and how many miles you plan to put on your shoes per week can determine your correct type of shoe.
A good store will not pressure you to buy their shoes, though some will do the gait analysis for free if you buy a shoe they have there. You can take their information and do a bit more research on the shoe(s) suggested and either purchase them through Ebay (they do have lots of new in box shoes, which is why I do all my shopping there). Many times online stores like runningwarehouse have sales on last season shoes, which are still new and often priced quite nicely. Be prepared to replace the shoes every 300 or so miles, since they will break down in the midsole even though the shoes look new. So be prepared to purchase several pairs over the span of a year. Trust me, there are few things more painful than running in a pair of shoes that are no longer good for running.
No one brand or style of shoe is better since everyone's feet are different. While I love my Asics Kayanos, many hate it and prefer something with even more cushioning, like the Brooks Trance. I started out on Nike Shox before I realized that these are pretty awful shoes - for me - though many like them. A good running store can at least narrow down for you types of shoes that you might like, and if you are willing to experiment (get two pairs of shoes and alternate them), you might find out that the one shoe you would never otherwise consider would be your shoe of choice. Minimalist shoes like the Vibrams are pretty close to running barefoot, and that is a specific choice - IF your feet can handle them. Only a lucky few seem to be able to run in them well. While I can understand the need to stay on a budget, I suggest getting the best shoe you can afford; technically, you can put yourself in $50 shoes marketed for running, but your feet might soon ache and/or be covered in blisters.
A good site to start your search on a shoe for you is on runnersworld.com; there is a link on the left side of the main page for shoe finder and reviews, and perhaps that can also help you.
If there is a specialized running store in your area (some better-known stores are known as Fleet Feet; just do a search on running stores), head there and get a gait analysis, and make sure it's more than having a saleperson simply watch you walk across the store in your socks. A decent store will have you on a treadmill where they can gauge your stride, footstrike, etc. Big box stores like Sports Authority, though they might have salespeople that are runners, are really not the place to get the right shoe for you if you have no idea what shoe to get.
Even though I technically have normal arches based on the wet test (dip your feet in water, step on a newspaper to see the imprint; if you see an arch, normal foot, flat foot or high arch), my feet are flat, I am an extreme heel-striker, and I am a severe overpronator. While I was in the correct group of shoes (stability), I needed a sturdier shoe.
You might find that your foot type may be wrong, or that depending on factors other than your build, like your age, weight, how long you have been running, where you run (pavement, trail), your average pace (fast runner or steady slow runner), and how many miles you plan to put on your shoes per week can determine your correct type of shoe.
A good store will not pressure you to buy their shoes, though some will do the gait analysis for free if you buy a shoe they have there. You can take their information and do a bit more research on the shoe(s) suggested and either purchase them through Ebay (they do have lots of new in box shoes, which is why I do all my shopping there). Many times online stores like runningwarehouse have sales on last season shoes, which are still new and often priced quite nicely. Be prepared to replace the shoes every 300 or so miles, since they will break down in the midsole even though the shoes look new. So be prepared to purchase several pairs over the span of a year. Trust me, there are few things more painful than running in a pair of shoes that are no longer good for running.
No one brand or style of shoe is better since everyone's feet are different. While I love my Asics Kayanos, many hate it and prefer something with even more cushioning, like the Brooks Trance. I started out on Nike Shox before I realized that these are pretty awful shoes - for me - though many like them. A good running store can at least narrow down for you types of shoes that you might like, and if you are willing to experiment (get two pairs of shoes and alternate them), you might find out that the one shoe you would never otherwise consider would be your shoe of choice. Minimalist shoes like the Vibrams are pretty close to running barefoot, and that is a specific choice - IF your feet can handle them. Only a lucky few seem to be able to run in them well. While I can understand the need to stay on a budget, I suggest getting the best shoe you can afford; technically, you can put yourself in $50 shoes marketed for running, but your feet might soon ache and/or be covered in blisters.
A good site to start your search on a shoe for you is on runnersworld.com; there is a link on the left side of the main page for shoe finder and reviews, and perhaps that can also help you.
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